July, 2026

While I Still Can — Why 70 Is the Right Time to Make Your Final Move

By Ivona Sroka PREC | SRES® — Senior Real Estate Specialist, Vancouver

She said something during our first meeting that stayed with me.

"I want to do this now — while I still can. While I can still walk through homes, compare neighbourhoods, and make this decision myself. Before someone else has to make it for me."

She is 70 years old. She is healthy, sharp, and clear about what she wants. She has lived in her home for decades — raised her children there, built her life there. And now she is ready for one final, deliberate move.

Not because she has to. But because she still can.

The Window That Does Not Stay Open Forever

There is a window of time — somewhere between "I'm fine" and "something has to change" — when seniors are in the best possible position to make a major real estate decision.

They have energy. They have clarity. They have the capacity to visit properties, ask questions, negotiate, and choose — not just accept whatever is available.

That window matters more than most people realize.

Because I have also seen what happens when families wait too long. When a health crisis arrives and suddenly decisions that should have taken months are made in days. When the senior is no longer able to participate in the process — and the family is left guessing what their parent would have wanted.

The difference between those two experiences is enormous.

What "The Final Move" Really Means

When I say "final move" I do not mean it in a sad or limiting way. I mean it in the most empowering sense possible.

A final move is a home chosen with intention. A place that fits not just where you are today — but where you are heading. A home that supports independence, comfort, and dignity for the years ahead.

For many seniors this means:

A condo with an elevator — no more stairs, no more maintenance worries.

Underground parking close to the entrance — practical and safe.

A walkable neighbourhood — close to transit, shops, medical care.

A smaller space — easier to manage, but thoughtfully designed.

Equity freed up — money that can fund travel, family, and the life they want to live.

It is not downsizing. It is right-sizing.

Why 70 — Not 80 — Is Often the Right Time

I am not suggesting that every 70-year-old needs to move. Everyone's situation is different, and there is no single right answer.

But I have noticed — over and over again — that the seniors who feel most at peace with their decision are the ones who made it from a position of strength, not necessity.

They chose their next home. They were not placed in it.

They decided what to keep, what to pass on, and what to let go. They were not overwhelmed by it.

They took their time. They were not rushed.

That is the gift of acting while you still can.

A Conversation Worth Having Now

If you are a senior reading this — or an adult child thinking about a parent — I want to gently offer this:

The best time to have this conversation is not when something goes wrong. It is now — when there is still time to plan thoughtfully, to explore options, and to make a decision that truly reflects who you are and what you want.

I am not here to rush anyone. I am here to walk alongside you — at your pace, with your values, toward the home and the life you deserve.

If you are thinking about your final move — while you still can — I would love to be part of that conversation.

There's no rush. We move at your pace.

Ivona Sroka PREC | SRES®

Senior Real Estate Specialist | RE/MAX Select Properties

604-202-0679 | ivona@sroka.ca | ivonasroka.ca

By Ivona Sroka PREC | SRES® — Senior Real Estate Specialist, Vancouver

In nearly ten years of working with seniors and homeowners in Vancouver, I have noticed something interesting.

The decision to move rarely happens because someone sat down one morning and decided the time had come. It happens because something shifts. A moment. A season. A conversation that finally lands differently than it did before.

And when that moment arrives — the question is no longer whether to move. It is: where do I go next?

The Practical Decision: Downsizing to a Condo

More and more Vancouver homeowners — not just seniors — are choosing to downsize deliberately. Not because they have to. Because they want to.

They are tired of maintaining a large home. They want to free up equity — the difference between what their home is worth and what a condo costs — and use that money to live better. Travel more. Worry less.

And many are thinking ahead. Choosing a condo with an elevator, underground parking close to the entrance, and a location that works not just for today — but for the years to come. A place where aging in place is possible. Where life is simpler without being smaller.

Downsizing is not giving something up. It is choosing what matters most.

The Health Decision: Moving to Senior Living

For other families, the shift comes differently. Health changes. The stairs become harder. The garden that once brought joy becomes a source of worry. A fall. A diagnosis. A quiet realization that living alone is no longer safe.

When this happens, senior living communities offer something a condo cannot — support. Meals. Community. Care when it is needed. And increasingly in Vancouver, communities that offer a full continuum — from independent living to memory care — all under one roof.

For couples especially, this matters enormously. One of the greatest fears I hear is: "What if we have to be separated because we have different care needs?" Today, that fear has an answer. There are communities where couples can remain close — sharing meals, sharing hallways, sharing life — even when their care needs differ.

The Family Decision: Moving Closer to Children

And then there is the third path — one that is less talked about, but more common than people think.

Sometimes, a senior moves in with family. A dedicated bedroom. A familiar face every day. Grandchildren down the hallway.

It is not the right choice for everyone — privacy, space, and independence matter deeply to many seniors. But for some families, it is the most natural and loving solution. And when it works, it truly works.

What makes it work? Honest conversations before the move. Clear expectations. A space that feels like the senior's own — not just a guest room.

What Finally Makes People Move

I am often asked: what finally makes people decide?

The answer is almost never the market. It is rarely the interest rate or the benchmark price.

It is a conversation with a child who finally said what needed to be said. A neighbour who moved and is clearly thriving. A moment standing in a large, quiet house and realizing that the space no longer fits the life.

It is the permission — internal or given by someone they love — to begin the next chapter.

And when that moment comes, I am here.

Whether you are thinking about downsizing to a condo, exploring senior living options, or simply wondering what the next chapter looks like — I would love to have a calm, no-pressure conversation.

There's no rush. We move at your pace.

Ivona Sroka PREC | SRES®

Senior Real Estate Specialist | RE/MAX Select Properties

604-202-0679 | ivona@sroka.ca | ivonasroka.ca

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The Kitchen Table Conversation Nobody

Wants to Have — But Every Family Needs

By Ivona Sroka PREC | SRES® — Senior Real Estate Specialist, Vancouver

There is a kitchen table in almost every family home I have

walked through.

Sometimes it is covered in mail and newspapers. Sometimes it is perfectly set,

waiting for a family that no longer gathers as often as it used to. Sometimes there

are grandchildren drawings on the chairs and crayon marks on the legs that

nobody ever wiped away — because who would want to?

That kitchen table holds forty years of Christmas dinners, homework sessions,

arguments, laughter, and love. It is not just furniture. It is the heart of a family’s

story.

And it is usually around that kitchen table — or around the absence of gathering

at it — that the hardest conversation finally begins.

The Conversation Nobody Wants to Start

In my nearly ten years of working with seniors and their families in Vancouver, I

have heard the same words more times than I can count:

“We keep meaning to talk about it”

And I understand. It is one of the most emotionally complex conversations a

family can have. Nobody wants to be the one to say: Mom, maybe it is time to

think about what comes next. Nobody wants to feel like they are taking

something away from the person they love most.

Adult children often tell me they do not know how to begin. And when they do

try, the conversation fractures along sibling lines — one thinks it is too soon,

another thinks it is overdue, and suddenly a family that loves each other deeply is

no longer talking about what is best for Mom. They are talking about who is right.

Meanwhile, the senior sits quietly — knowing, perhaps better than anyone, that

something needs to change. But terrified that the conversation means giving up

control over the life they have built.

What Happens When We Wait Too Long

I have seen what happens when the conversation does not happen in time.

A fall. A diagnosis. A moment that changes everything overnight. And suddenly a

family that had years to prepare is making enormous decisions in days — which

home, which belongings, which community, what comes next — while also

managing grief, fear, and the logistics of a crisis.

There is no Will. Nobody knows where the Power of Attorney documents are. The

siblings have not spoken about any of it. And Mom — who always said: '“we will

figure it out” — can no longer be part of the conversation.

The most powerful thing a senior can do — while they still have their

health, their voice, and their choice — is to start the conversation.

Not because they are ready to leave their home. But because they deserve to be

the one who decides. Where they go. When they go. What they take with them.

What happens next.

Seniors Do Not Just Want to Move. They Want to Belong.

After years of working with seniors, I have come to understand something that no

market report will ever capture:

Seniors do not just want a place to live. They want to belong.

They want a familiar face at breakfast. A neighbour who knocks on the door. A

community that has rhythm and warmth — even after leaving the home they lived

in for forty years.

I think about the women I have worked with who will spend this Mother’s Day

quietly — their children in Toronto, in Warsaw, in Sydney. A phone call will

come. But the house will be still.

And I think about what it would mean for them to be somewhere that does not

feel empty. Somewhere with life. Somewhere with community.

Together Under One Roof — A New Kind of Hope

One of the most heartbreaking fears I hear from senior couples is this:

“What if we have to be separated because we have different care

needs?”.

For years, this was a very real possibility. One partner needing memory care. The

other needing assisted living. Families forced to choose between proximity and

appropriate care.

But senior living in Vancouver is evolving. Today, there are communities offering

a full continuum of care — independent living, assisted living, and memory care

— all under one roof. Couples with different needs can still share meals. Still walk

the same hallways. Still be together every single day.

Knowing this exists — before a crisis forces a decision — changes everything.

Planning Ahead — A Free Seminar for Seniors and Their

Families

On May 20th, I will be hosting the third session of my Planning My Next Chapter

series at Amica Arbutus Manor in Vancouver.

This session — Planning Ahead: Legal & Financial Decisions for Seniors and

Families — is designed for seniors and their families who want to feel informed,

prepared, and supported. No pressure. No rushing. Just honest, expert

information in a warm and welcoming setting.

Joining me will be:

• Blandyna Skowronska, Notary — covering Wills, Power of Attorney, and

Representation Agreements

• Jane Gong, Senior Financial Broker — covering retirement income, asset

protection, and legacy planning

Wednesday, May 20th | 3:00 – 4:30 PM

Amica Arbutus Manor | 2125 Eddington Drive, Vancouver

Refreshments will be served. Lucky Gift Basket Draw for all attendees.

Free of charge. No obligation.

To reserve your seat, please contact me:

ivona@sroka.ca |  604-202-0679

If your family is beginning this conversation — or avoiding it — I am

here.

Not to rush. Not to push. But to walk alongside you — at your pace, with genuine

care for what comes next. We move at your pace.

Ivona Sroka PREC | SRES®

Senior Real Estate Specialist | RE/MAX Select Properties

 | ivona@sroka.ca | ivonasroka.ca

Watching your parents prepare to leave the home where you grew up is never easy. For many Vancouver families, the family home represents decades of memories, hard work, and identity. And yet, there comes a time when the house is simply too big, too demanding, or no longer safe — and the conversation about selling must happen.

If you're an adult child helping your parent or parents navigate this transition, you're not alone. This is one of the most emotional and complex real estate situations a family can face. Here's what I've learned after years of helping Vancouver seniors and their families through exactly this process.

1. Start the Conversation Before There's a Crisis

The worst time to talk about selling the family home is after a fall, a health emergency, or a sudden change in circumstances. When emotions are already running high and decisions need to be made quickly, everyone suffers.

The best approach is to start the conversation early — gently, and without pressure. You might say something like: "Mom, I just want to understand what you'd want if things changed. We don't need to decide anything today."

Give it time. This is rarely a one-conversation decision, and that's okay.

2. Let Your Parent Lead — Even When It's Hard

One of the most common mistakes adult children make is taking over. You may see the situation clearly — the house needs too much upkeep, the neighbourhood has changed, the stairs are dangerous — but your parent needs to feel that this is their decision, not yours.

A good real estate specialist will always speak directly to the senior, not around them. Your parent deserves to be treated with dignity and respect throughout the entire process, not managed or hurried.

3. Understand That Timing Matters — But Patience Matters More

Vancouver's real estate market has its rhythms, and yes, timing can affect the sale price. But in my experience, forcing a timeline that doesn't feel right to your parent will create far more problems than a few weeks of waiting.

When a senior feels rushed, they become anxious and resistant. When they feel heard and supported, they move forward with confidence. The best outcomes I've seen come from families who give the process the time it needs.

4. Paper Signatures Are Still Perfectly Valid — And Sometimes Better

Many seniors are uncomfortable signing documents electronically, and that is completely fine. In British Columbia, all real estate transactions can still be completed with traditional paper signatures. There is no requirement to use electronic signing platforms.

If your parent prefers to sign everything by hand, in person, with time to read each document carefully — that is their right, and a good agent will accommodate this without question.

This is something I do for every senior client. We go through every document together, page by page, no rushing, no pressure.

5. Decluttering Is Emotional — Give It the Space It Deserves

A home of 30 or 40 years holds an enormous amount of belongings — and memories. Decluttering before a sale is not just a practical task. It is an emotional one.

Build extra time into your timeline for this. Consider hiring a senior move manager if needed. And resist the urge to rush through the family home in a weekend — it took decades to fill, and it deserves more than two days to empty.

6. Know What Comes Next Before You Sell

One of the biggest sources of anxiety for seniors facing a home sale is the uncertainty of what comes next. Where will I live? Will I be happy there? What if I don't like it?

Before listing the home, spend time exploring the options — whether that's a smaller condo, a 55+ community, an independent living residence, or moving closer to family. When your parent has a clear and appealing picture of what's ahead, the sale feels like a beginning rather than an ending.

7. Work With a Realtor Who Specializes in Seniors

Not every realtor is equipped for this kind of transaction. Selling a family home of 40 years is not the same as a standard real estate sale. It requires patience, sensitivity, and a genuine understanding of what seniors and their families are going through.

Look for a realtor with the SRES designation (Seniors Real Estate Specialist) — a credential that reflects specific training in senior transitions, estate sales, and family dynamics.

If your family is beginning to think about this conversation, I'm happy to be a resource — with no pressure and no obligation. Sometimes it helps just to talk it through with someone who has been there before.

Ivona Sroka — Seniors Real Estate Specialist, Vancouver  604-202-0679  ivona@sroka.ca

Selling a home is a significant decision, especially for seniors who may be navigating unique legal challenges. Whether downsizing, relocating, or moving into a retirement community, it’s crucial to be aware of the legal aspects that could impact the sale. Here are some key legal concerns seniors should consider:

1. Title and Ownership Issues

Before listing your property, ensure the title is clear and free of any disputes or claims. Any unresolved issues can delay the sale or lead to legal complications. If the property is co-owned, make sure all parties are in agreement and understand their rights and responsibilities.

2. Understanding Contracts and Paperwork

Real estate transactions involve complex contracts. Seniors should carefully review all documents, including the listing agreement, purchase agreement, and any disclosures. It’s advisable to work with a real estate professional who can explain the terms and ensure that all legal requirements are met.

3. Estate Planning and Impact on Heirs

If the home is part of an estate plan, consider how the sale might affect your heirs. It’s important to consult with an estate attorney to ensure that the sale aligns with your overall estate planning goals and that your wishes are properly documented.

4. Tax Implications

Selling a home can have tax consequences, especially if the property has appreciated in value. Seniors should be aware of capital gains taxes and any exemptions that may apply. Consulting a tax professional can help you understand your specific situation and minimize any potential tax burden.

5. Power of Attorney and Legal Authority

In some cases, seniors may have a power of attorney (POA) managing their affairs. It’s essential to ensure that the POA has the legal authority to sell the property and that all actions are in the best interest of the senior homeowner. Legal advice should be sought to confirm that all documents are in order.

6. Scams and Fraud Prevention

Unfortunately, seniors can be targets for real estate scams. Be cautious of unsolicited offers, high-pressure sales tactics, or anyone asking for personal financial information. Always work with trusted professionals and verify the legitimacy of any parties involved in the transaction.

7. Legal Rights and Protections

Seniors should be aware of their legal rights throughout the selling process. This includes understanding fair housing laws, anti-discrimination protections, and any local regulations that may apply to their sale. A knowledgeable real estate professional can help guide you through these legalities.

Conclusion

Selling your home as a senior can be a complex process with various legal considerations. By being informed and working with trusted professionals, you can ensure a smooth and successful sale that aligns with your goals and protects your interests.

Contact Ivona Sroka PREC today for expert guidance and support tailored to your needs. Let’s make your next move with confidence and peace of mind.

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